The attitude you pose is greatly influenced by the links of friendships you bookmark. Good friends, good attitudes; best friends, best attitudes. Guess what for toxic friends...!
Even if you love a lady, don't say you will take care of her while someone else is catering for your needs.
(v. t.) To act as a friend to; to favor; to aid, benefit, or countenance.
The vacancy in your heart doesn't connotes that nobody is seeking for the job of servicing your feelings, but because the employee must first have all the necessary credentials needed for the job.
I'd rather be befriended as an aimless lost soul than be befriended for adornment, gain or goal.
If you wish to befriend someone, look for a person who loves first God then themselves. If they love God, they will be able to love their neighbor, too.
I have found no other cure for loneliness than to befriend it.