Sometimes I simply remind patients that sooner or later they will have to relinquish the goal of having a better past.
Mind thinks in images but, to communicate with another, must transform image into thought and then thought into language. That march, from image to thought to language, is treacherous. Casualties occu...
Jis keistas mišrūnas- protingas, bet aklas, nuoširdus, bet per daug suktas
It’s no great mystery. If no one will listen, it’s only natural to shout!
In general, however, there is agreement that groups differ from one another in the amount of groupness present. Those with a greater sense of solidarity, or we-ness, value the group more highly and wi...
Freedom as a given seems the very antithesis of death. While we dread death, we generally consider freedom to be unequivocally positive. Has not the history of Western civilization been punctuated wit...
Four givens are particularly relevant for psycho-therapy: the inevitability of death for each of us and for those we love; the freedom to make our lives as we will; our ultimate aloneness; and, finall...
Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
Emotion has the power to obscure and falsify knowledge: that the whole world assumes a smiling aspect when we have reason to rejoice, and a dark and gloomy one when sorrow weighs upon us.
Eighty-one is old, shockingly old. I’m shocked myself when I think about it. I don’t feel old, and over and over I wonder how I got to be eighty-one. I always used to be the youngest kid—in my classes...
Düşünceler, duygularımızın gölgesidir; ama her zaman daha karanlık, daha boş ve daha sade.
Cinstea mai presus de toate. Un sceptic convins in toate celelalte privinte, Ernest credea cu o fervoare fundamentalista in forta tamaduitoare a cinstei. Catehismul lui cerea cinste – insa o cinste te...
Bunun anlamı sırtımda babamı taşıma yükünü taşımadım hiç, onun yargılarının ağırlığı boğazıma çökmedi, benim yaşama hedefim onun tutkularını gerçekleştirmek biçimini almadı. Babamın ölümü bir nimet, b...
Beginning therapists must learn that there are times to sit in silence, sometimes in silent communion, sometimes simply while waiting for patients' thoughts to appear in a form that they may be expres...
Analiza regretlor duce mereu discutia intr-o zona mai profunda.
Amor fati, yazgını sev!
We're not teaching our students the importance of relationships with other people: how you work with them, what the relational pathology consists of, how you examine your own conscience, how you exami...
…It seems impossible to overestimate their capacity for irrationality. Somewhere in this world, with every blink of the eye, a fool is born.
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