الحب الاخوي هو حب بين اثنين متساويين, ولكن حتى لو كنا متساوين حقا فاننا لسنا متساوين دائما, وذلك بقدر ما نحن بشر فاننا جميعا محتاجون الى المساعدة. اليوم أنا وغدا أنت. لكن هذه الحاجة الى المساعدة لا تع...
،أن يكون الإنسان نشيطًا يعني أن يجد نفسه وأن ينمو، ويتدفق، ويحب، ويتجاوز سجن ذاته المنعزلة، وأن يكون شغوفًا ومنصتًا ومعطاء
Люди чувствуют себя любящими, если они «увлечены» кем-то. они также называют любовью свою зависимость и свое собственничество.
While everybody tries to be as close as possible to the rest, everybody remains utterly alone, pervaded by the deep sense of insecurity, anxiety and guilt which always results when human separateness...
What matters is the effect, not the process.
We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them.
We have faith in the potentialities of other, of ourselves, and of mankind because, and only to the degree which, we have experienced the growth of our own potentialities, the reality of growth in our...
Two persons thus fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market, considering the limitations of their own exchange values.
The right to express out thoughts, however, means something only if we are able to have thoughts of our own; freedom from external authority is a lasting gain only if the inner psychological condition...
The pleasure in complete domination over another person (or other animate creature) is the very essence of the sadistic drive. Another way of formulating the same thought is to say that the aim of sad...
The outer chains have simply been put inside of man. The desires and thoughts that the suggestion apparatus of society fills him with, chain him more thoroughly than outer chains.
The outer chains have simply been put inside of man. The desires and thoughts that the suggestion apparatus of society fills him with, chain him more thoroughly than outer chains. This is so because m...
The more the drive toward life is thwarted, the stronger is the drive toward destruction; the more life is realized, the less is the strength of destructiveness. Destructiveness is the outcome of unli...
The more man gains freedom in the sense of emerging from the original oneness with man and nature and the more he becomes an 'individual,' he has no choice but to unite himself with the world in the s...
The mature response to the problem of existence is love.
The individual is freed from the bondage of economic and political ties. He also gains in positive freedom by the active and independent role which he has to play in the new system. But simultaneously...
The failure of modern culture lies not in its principle of individualism, not in the idea that moral virtue is the same as the pursuit of self-interest, but in the deterioration of the meaning of self...
The experience of separateness arouses anxiety; it is, indeed, the source of all anxiety. Being separate means being cut off, without any capacity to use my human powers. Hence to be separate means to...
The doubt itself will not disappear as long as man does not overcome his isolation and as long as his place in the world has not become a meaningful one in terms of his human needs.
The deepest need of man, then, is the need to overcome his separateness, to leave the prison of his aloneness.