Living in a way that reflects one's values is not just about what you do, it is also about how you do things.
Your purpose is your why.
Evaluating the benefits and drawbacks of any relationship is your responsibility. You do not have to passively accept what is brought to you. You can choose.
Igniting your creative potentials opens you up to new learnings and insights.
Make a pledge to yourself right now, to declare that you are worth your time and energy.
You don't have to be like anyone else. You just need to learn more about your own creative self and start blooming.
Recognizing that you are not where you want to be is a starting point to begin changing your life.