Remember, your capacity to fool yourself is greater than the abilities of any conjurer, and conjurers come in many guises. You are a creature impelled to hope. As you attempt to make sense of the worl...
When you fear you will confirm a negative stereotype, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy not because the stereotype is true, but because you can't stop worrying that you could become an example...
So the next time you are in a group of people trying to reach consensus, be the asshole. Every group needs one, and it might as well be you.
If you think catharsis is good, you are more likely to seek it out when you get pissed.
Failing often is the only way to ever get the things you want out of life.
As psychologist Bruce Hood writes in his book The Self Illusion, you have an origin story and a sense that you’ve traveled from youth to now along a linear path, with ups and downs that ultimately mad...
If you fail to believe you will procrastinate or become idealustic about how awesome you are at working hard and managing your time, you never develop a strategy for outmaneuvering your own weakness.
You don’t believe you are an average person, but you do believe everyone else is. This tendency, which springs from self-serving bias, is called the illusory superiority effect.
You are a story you tell yourself.
A long day of dealing with bullshit often leads to an evening of no-decision television ...
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First impressions are difficult to change.
You see people who speak slowly as being less intelligent—slow.
When you are making plans, your better angels point to the nourishing choices, but in the moment you go for what tastes good.
When it comes to buying lottery tickets, fearing the West Nile virus, looking for child molesters, and so on, you use the availability heuristic first and the facts second.
To be less dumb, remember your propensity for post hoc postulation and the power positive permutations of the placebo effect have to pollute your perspicacity.
The psychologist Jonathan Haidt says many people who don’t consciously believe in karma still believe deep down in some version of it, calling it whatever seems appropriate in their own culture. They...
The flow of consciousness is one thing; the recollection of its course is another, yet you usually see them as the same. This is one of the oldest concepts in psychology and philosophy—phenomenology.
THE TRUTH: You are driven to create and form groups and then believe others are wrong just because they are others.
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